Life Strategies (III)

In the book, it was mentioned that suppose we hire a life manager to monitor our life, at the end of our days, we have to appraise the performance of our life manager. We have to ask  

·  Is my life manager putting me in situations where I can utilize all of my skills and abilities?

·  Is my life manager create opportunities for me to get what I really want in the life?

·  Is my life manager selecting and possessing relationships in which I can be healthy and flourish?

And so we have to do something for our life before it is too late.

What is it I truly want in the life?

In addition,

·  You should have a sense of being focused on what you must urgently want in your life.

·  Managing your life with design and commitment.

·  To change your life, you must be different.

·  If the people treat you in an undesirable way, you’re going to figure out what you are doing to reinforce, elicit or allow that treatment.

·  You teach people by passively allow them to persist in that behavior.

·  Acknowledge any problem behavior, figure out why problem behavior happens, make a plan for change. You can’t change what you don’t acknowledge

·  For every thought and every feeling, there is a physiological reaction.

·  You choose how you feel.

·  Do I go into intentions expecting negative outcome?

·  You can’t give away what you do not have.

·  Trust yourself and others with dignity and respect.

·  If you continue to do what you’ve already done, you will continue to have what you’ve always had. If you do it different, you will have different result.

·  You do have to make you the most important person in your life.

·  You shape the behavior of those with whom you interact.

·  How you interpret and react to their behavior determines whether they are likely to repeat it.

·  You create your own experience. You must have the resolve to create what you want and get rid of what you don’t want.

·  Have the willingness and courage to claim what you want.

·  You cannot continue to live with those types of behavior, particularly the rigidity.

·  That’s only a disaster if you don’t work to improve.

·  You have the right to be who you are and how you are, so long as it is not at the expense of other people’s dignity and respect.

·  You cannot let people intimidate you.  You deserve more, you can have more.

·  Anyone can be a star, a champion in their life.